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By Rev. Charles T. Rubey Director, LOSS Program, Administration/Program Development

The most recent publication of the new catechism of the Roman Catholic Church states that “it is wrong for a person to take their life." The catechism does go on to clarify that in many instances there are extenuating circumstances that will mitigate the responsibility of the person’s actions. It is unfortunate that the catechism states this in such a way. It is open to misunderstanding on the part of many of the members of the Church. Such a statement continues the misconception of the whole area of suicide and the ultimate destiny of people who complete suicide. Without going down the slippery slope of the issue, it should be treated with a little more sensitivity and understanding of the issues that plague survivors of a completed suicide. Survivors have enough struggles in surviving the death of a loved one from suicide. They should not have to worry about the final destiny of a loved one. If someone were to ask me if it is permissible to take their life, I would not hesitate to say that it is not right to do so. After the fact, I would have a completely different response.

My belief is that God judges us negatively when we act out of malice. A person who completes suicide is not acting out of malice but is acting out of desperation. Their death is a clear statement that they can no longer tolerate the pain that has engulfed them. The pain has become more than they can handle and they are looking for a way out of their pain. They are not malicious but desperate. They do not want to “hurt God." They want peace from their internal torture that has become unbearable. I would find it hard to believe in a God who would deny peace and tranquility to a person whose life was devoid of such peace and tranquility. The reason that a person engages in such an act is to find peace and to escape from the torture that has made their life so unbearable.


10/12/2014 at 9:14 AM
We have lost our third home. Now living with my parents in my mid fifties. We moved to Florida from NY and am earning 25% less than I was in NY. My wife has MS and I am a type 1 diabetic. I am always sad and my wife is also. She had no hope nor do I. I have prayed for years for Christ to help us. I have thanked him everyday for what we have but this is unbearable. I have lost my faith and I know my wife has. I'm done with this crap
08/12/2014 at 8:09 AM
Louise Koenig
May a suffering soul be blessed by my experience. I suffered with anxiety and depression.. A year ago I began reading Scripture every day including 1 chapter of Proverbs each day. I substituted messages and sermons from prominent protestant preachers instead of watching television. This kept my mind on Jesus. I spoke God's promises out loud. I was healed by His precious Word which is spirit and life. I continued going to church and receiving communion. I AM HEALED. I have zero depression and anxiety. I continue this practice. Our thoughts make us depressed and anxious, His thoughts bring mercy, compassion, andjealing for our weary souls. Blessings of peace to all
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